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Shock at lesbian couple cheat video


Happier times ... Chido (left) and Nicky one of first Zimbabwean lesbian couples to be married

11/07/2012 00:00:00
by Staff Reporter
 
Shamed ... Brenda Soko has apologised
 
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THIS video posted on YouTube shows the dramatic moment trust was shattered between a Zimbabwean lesbian couple who exchanged vows in a civil ceremony in England last year.

The video, circulated on social networks among Zimbabweans in the United Kingdom since Tuesday, is believed to have been shot at a house in Manchester which is shared by Nicky Chigoba Chalenga and her lesbian partner, Chido Chalenga.

New Zimbabwe.com has confirmed that the voice on the video is that of Nicky, who walks in to find her partner pleasuring their married friend, Brenda Muchi Soko, with their SEX TOYS.

Nicky, with her mobile video camera rolling, confronts the pair.
 
“Brenda what are you doing in my house, and with Chido in my bed? What’s going on guys?,” she asks the shamed cheaters.
 
Chido stares at her while Brenda, who lives with her husband nearby, covers herself with a duvet.
 
Her voice cracking with emotion, Nicky pulls the duvet from the two while continuing her running commentary.

“Using our sex toys? Haa? What’s going on guys? Brenda, how could you? Chido, how could you? What’s going on? Is this the love you were talking about Brenda? With our sex toys?”

As Chido scrambles to cover herself with a pillow, Nicky then introduces the cheating pair to "everyone".

“Hi everyone, this is my wife and our so-called friend Brenda Muchi Gadzi Soko, **** *****’s wife, with my partner Chido Chalenga in bed,” she says before the video terminates.

Nicky told our correspondent on Wednesday that she had shared the video with Brenda’s husband and was not responsible for circulating it. She begged us to “let it die a natural death”.

And writing on her Facebook Wall, brave Nicky signalled she was ready to move on.

She said: “When you hold resentment, hate and anger toward another, you are bound to that person or condition by an emotional link that is stronger than steel.

“Forgiveness is the only way to dissolve that link and get free.”
 
Brenda, who was a member of a woman-only Facebook group called 'Dandaro NemaGirls', said: "I am sure you are all aware of what has happened, everything is now in the public eye and and I'm sorry to everyone on the group and the parties involved, my family and close close friends.
 
"I must take complete responsibility for my actions both public and private... As much as I wanted this to just go away and handle it privately, I can't.
 
"It has come out that I had an inappropriate relationship with a friend's partner, it's true. I'm sorry for the hurt that has been caused and I take full responsibility. It was wrong... I am human and make mistakes and this is one of them."

Nicky and Chido are among the first Zimbabwean lesbians anywhere in the world to enter into a civil partnership. They have a child together via a sperm donor.



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